Month: Sep 2019

October plans

Sep 30, 2019

Hello October!

And Hello everyone!

Hope you are doing great in your life.

Here are my October plans, somehow I have tried to complete my September plans yet became failed in few of it because of some instant schedules of my university classes

So here you go!

My October plans

  • So the very first thing that I have to start this month is a workout. I have gone through a busy routine this month and have not given proper time to my health so, yeah this would be my month of full work out. insha’Allah!
  • The second thing that I have to do is complete at least 3 books this month. I read on a daily basis but I want to try to improve my speed of reading so that’s the very important thing that I have to do this month I mean in October.
  • The third most important thing is that I have to look after my family and siblings coz they need attention and love. Indeed life is meaningless without family so yeah my family is among top three priorities of this month.
  • Also, the most important thing that I have to manage time for reading and writing two. It’s very difficult to look after your family and giving time to the university and your studies and also taking care of your health, self-care. Things mess up just because of a lot of works and responsibilities. So writing becomes a bit difficult. Therefore I have to take out time for my writing too and I have to send at least 5-9 articles into newspaper this month. Insha Allah

If you have your plans for October plz share! It’s not necessary that you have very big plans. Whatever your plans are related to your health, studies, job, family etc plz share in the comment.

Always be happy and inspired

Have a blessed month ahead

Paint yourself with colors within

Sep 28, 2019

I have learned from the nature of people as you go closer to them they just find out the flaws and defects among you. They don’t enjoy your company. They tease you, they taunt you moreover, they urge you to do what they want. They want to make you what they want to see you.

On the other side when you are far from people, you hear them saying: she is so arrogant, she has an attitude problem, such a proud girl blah blah blah, but why she has so much attitude!. Is she is daughter of a billionaire? hahaha,…or she considers herself the most beautiful and charming girl of the world, by the way it sounds good 🙂

I don’t know what is the problem with them. whatever, i don’t focus on their stupid shits. i’m happy with myself in my small world where very few people only mean to me and i really do care about them.

well, the purpose of writing this blog is that people are only mean to discourage you, they are not going to make you happier, they will not help you at reaching your destiny. In either sides they are mean to fall you down. So why do you care about them who really don’t care of you? why you encourage them who don’t even praise on your stunning performance?

The one who is going to feel you happier, pride, encouraged and one who can be the best fellow in the journey of your life is only you, yes! you are the best friend of yours. Sometimes to be arrogant is best, to ignore people is best, to care your self-esteem is best and to spent time with yourself is best. According to some people it is selfishness,  but i consider it self-care. If due to some people you lose your self-esteem then it is better to leave them because your first priority is you. You should be your first and foremost priority. Let them feel that you can alone can do whatever you want, make them wonder by your stunning performance. Stay blessed and happy 🙂 

Paint yourself with colors within

Find a companion within

Make a small world for yourself 

Be a wander in spiritual ecstasy

Keep dreaming with empty eyes

Do what your heart says but listen to everyone

With broken breaths: keep fighting, keep moving forward 

Piece-by piece; collecting your fate

Why is your heart broken and in pain

Why are you? why you exist? contemplate 

Fight the war within

Stun everyone around you

~Uzma Ashraf

 

Happy Friday

Sep 27, 2019

‪Almighty. Whenever we’re stressed, anxious or afraid, help us remember to run to You and no one else.

You’re the only One who can calm our fears, anxieties and turbulent hearts. We can’t handle these times alone.

We need Your peace and infinite wisdom to guide us through it all.‬

Have a good Friday!S

Stay blessed

😇❤

Always be grateful

Sep 26, 2019

There are so many complications in a humans life because this is a dual world if there is happiness there is sadness too.

Life is full of challenges, hardships, and sufferings, at a certain point in our life we start blaming ourselves or maybe lord and this is just because we only focus on our hardships we don’t focus on our blessings we don’t count our blessings. We are extremely ungrateful humans.

Right now start counting your blessings. Being a Muslim it is a great blessing that you are a Muslim, you have taken birth in a Muslim family. Your lord has given you a perfect shape a perfect body. You have six senses, you may see the mesmerising beauty of the world, you may hear, you may speak, you have a thinking sense.

If you take a blink in your existence you will see the unlimited blessings hidden inside your own existence. Moreover, if you see outward from your existence into this world, You will also find endless of blessings.

The water, the food, shelter and so many resources which you own either natural or man-made your Life is full of them despite you are ungrateful and that is why your lord snatches you everything when you become ungrateful to him.

Be grateful to your lord for each and everything. Maybe the thing that you have right now in your life but you have no importance of that thing in your life, it can be someone’s wishes and prayers.

So have gratitude!

Be happy and content!

Stay blessed!

©Uzma Ashraf

Sometimes it’s better to change your heart rather than situation

Sep 17, 2019

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Hey everyone.

Hope you  might be happy in your life.

Life is not the bed of roses.

you might have heard this quote and surely you listen to it in your daily life and you also realize that in your practical life. No one’s life is full of happiness, this is the universal fact.

Everyone faces difficult situations, stress, anxiety, depression and sadness. Because if there is happiness there is sadness too, ups and downs are the part of life this whole system is designed like that. But have you ever thought that when we are happy we don’t care about anyone we are totally in the mood of enjoying that happiness even we forget our God, we skip prayers because we are busy in the enjoyment.

As I have mentioned above that sadness is also part of life. So why we bother when we are sad??
Why we remember God in the difficult times because he is only the healer of our hearts.

Sometimes life gets so much harsh and hard, we suffer, pray and wait for some positive variations in our life. when situations don’t get better we start complaining to our God, but think a while when there doesn’t seem any chance for better situations then God might be planning to change your heart and maybe it’s better to change your heart rather than situations.

Sometimes it is better to change your heart rather than situation

So never ever complain to God be happy in every situation, even in worst situation it’s better to be content and happy because God is the best planner, he knows everything and he knows the perfect timing of everything. It should be our faith that Allah is the best guider, healer and planner.

~Uzma Ashraf

It’s never too late to ask yourself

Sep 12, 2019

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It is never late to ask yourself “Am I ready to change my life, am I ready to change myself?”. However old we are, whatever we went through, it is always possible to reborn. If each day is a copy of the last one, what a pity! Every breath is a chance to reborn. But to reborn into a new life, you have to die before dying.

Shams Tabriz

Recipe of Life

Sep 9, 2019

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This is the recipe of life

said my mother

As she held me in her arms as i I wept

Think of those flowers you paint

in the garden each year

they will teach you

that people too

must filt

fall

root

rise

in order to bloom!

A beautiful poem by Rupi kaur i personaly loved her book MILK AND HONEY. Must have a read atleast one time.

Stay blessed and healthy 

much love

~Uzma Ashraf

“IF YOU CAN DREAM IT, YOU CAN DO IT”

Sep 8, 2019
People try to spend their lives according to their dreams and goals.They hope for the completion of their dreams, without dreams their life seems purposeless. So, it is obvious that every individual has dreams in his or her life.
These dreams can be related with their education, Career, best future, serving humanity even a best partner/soul mate.
It means that every one wants best life accordingly his/her choices. But, among the 100% of people only, 3% try to convert their dreams into reality. Other just make their goals and dreams in their heads.They don’t try to achieve them. Because they have fear of society. Due to, that fear they hide their talent and dreams from people. They have fear that if they struggle for their dreams people will laugh at them, people will tease them, and they will do all kind of shits for making them lower. They extremely bear people’s abuses and stop trying, they become hopeless and try to live accordingly on others choice. They think, that other people are the owner of their lives. Moreover they forget that, they are awarded a beautiful life by Allah almighty. And they have right to spend their lives as they want. But, what they do, they put their destiny in others hands.
Other people start controlling them. When people fully control their lives. They don’t become able of making their dreams come true. They become afraid of people. They try to make people happy but don’t think either they are happy or not. But this can be controlled. what they have to do is that they have to do struggle for their dreams. They have to just amazed them. Let them laugh,let them tease, let them do all things. Make their hates a motivation and inspiration..Because they are the people who are making you successful. So,focus on your dreams try to convert them into reality and amaze them.
~Uzma Ashraf